If You Want To Be Happy…

by | Sep 15, 2020 | Mind

Everyone want to be happy in life. That means working according to your passion, being financially secure, being healthy, and having ample free time to pursue your interests. I’m satisfied with my current state of affairs, and so far, mission accomplished. Happiness is the ultimate objective every person should have; it should be the core of every decision. Your satisfaction will reflect on your behavior. It’s contagious, so people around you would feel it, too.

The framework of goals, which is the secret to success, is essential because they provide concentration, direction, and encouragement. They shape our dreams and allow us to stretch and develop. Despite this, many don’t organize goals because they don’t know how to configure or understand their importance or fear failure.

want to be happy
Happy Mountain Climber

One common reason for those who incubate goals, but never quite achieve them, is that their goals aren’t inspiring them. You are likely to put more time and more energy into something that excites you. Your goals should motivate you to jump out of bed in the morning to achieve it as soon as possible.

To accomplish your goals, you must know how to anchor them correctly. Objective setting is a process that begins with careful consideration of what you want to achieve and finishes with a lot of hard work. Knowing these steps will put you in a better position to formulate goals that you can accomplish.

Your goals give you a vision for the long term and motivation for the short term. It focuses your acquisition of knowledge and helps you organize your time and resources to make the most of your life. 

A Happy GIrl
A Happy GIrl

Taking the time through goal setting to ponder your own emotions allows you to learn more about yourself. You can make better decisions when you genuinely understand yourself. Embrace your feelings, and then question them. Use those emotions as a guidance to you in your daily actions as you work toward your goals. Here are six goal-setting tips that I recommend to help you join the 8% of people who achieve their goals.

  1. Aim high, but start low and keep going
  2. Don’t let anyone set the goals for you.
  3. Be clear about success.
  4. Understand why this goal is essential.
  5. Track your performance.
  6. Celebrate.

To put it another way: If you want to complete several goals at a time, be prepared to make (significant) sacrifices. The truth is, most people don’t want to give up anything to accomplish a goal. When you want to get fit, you have to be willing to change what you eat and give up certain foods. End goals define outcomes where you’re unwilling to compromise — they describe what you want. Means goals, on the other hand, set one of many paths to reach your end goals. 

Sunshine Girl
Sunshine Girl

To sum up, setting goals is the first step to achieving good objectives, representing the first step you have made toward progress. It’s when you gear up from a passive state to being involved in life. If everyone sets a goal for self-improvement, it will lead to a better society as a whole. At last we all want to be happy in life.

 Setting goals and working on them contributes to joy and happiness. Elation comes at that moment after you have touched the wall, looked up at the scoreboard, and see that you have finally accomplished what you have worked for so long. After completing, the feeling of joy will further motivate you to set for more and bigger goals to stay on the right track. After all, life’s better when we’re happy, healthy, and successful.

Dr. Bob Singhal

Professor Bhupendra 'Bob' Singhal, has taught creativity by joy and right-brain thinking, is a renowned international architect, won major design competitions, has over 70 awards, publications, and media mentions, and served as President of the American Institute of Architects South Bay. In 2011, in his book Joy in Health and Happiness: Your Optimal Path to Success, Professor Singhal wrote about the transformative power of joy and helped readers learn to enhance their daily experience of it.


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